Saturday, October 31, 2015

Living to Serve

As many know, "living to serve" is the last line of the FFA motto. As I sit on a charter bus from Louisville to Washington D.C. I am reflecting back on the many scenes, speeches and discussions from National FFA Convention. 

Both National and State Conventions manage to get inspirational keynote speakers for the kids to hear. One thing that always seems to spark discussion are those speeches that focus on doing for others. They seems to get kids in the mindset to talk about what we can do at home to be better, while doing mostly for others. 

Last night, we watched the founder of Kid President (look it up www.kidpresident.com ), Brad Montague give an unpolished, nervous, completely inspiring speech entitled #ShineGreatness. The conversations this sparked even with just the two girls I have with me was crazy. During the keynote, they kept say "ooh that's good" and "we need to do that" and "how can we make that happen?" To me this is the greatest accomplishment of keynote speakers. Really the art of appealing to high school kids to get them completely pumped, is amazing to me. There's always an added bonus if they become pumped about serving others rather than themselves.

One of my biggest goals each year is to do as much community service, with my kids, as possible. From can food drives, to the Sonoma County Secret Santa Hearts, to working at the Foodbank, I'm always impressed by those who want to do more for others. Now, I might have grown up normal or abnormal, jury is still out, but my mom was always a big proponent of doing community service no matter how big or small. 4-H played a big role with this, always volunteering here and there around our little town. I feel like I've absorbed some of that, because when we do for others, we are much better at being grateful for everything we have.

Following the session and speaker last night, I took my girls to Steak & Shake (one of my faves!). It was busy and packed with regular customers and a whole lot of FFA members. At one point an elderly man, who had seen better times came in a sat down. Quickly following, a young lady from California in full FFA dress, came over introduced herself and told the man she would like him to order anything he wanted and she was going to buy him dinner. She sat and talked with him for a good 15-20 minutes. That is just pure goodness. It made me even more proud that she was from a California chapter. My girls just sat watching and talking about all the things we need to do at our own school to get more people involved in community service and practicing better servant leadership. In that hour, they decided on at least 5 things we can do to involve our chapter starting this month. It was also discussed about how we can't "let the service die" after the holidays because people need help all year.

I can't wait to get back to California, so the girls can explain all their great ideas to the officer team. I think the best part of their ideas are the practicality, because we can make all of them happen.

Brad Montague, talked a lot about how adults want to do good, but kids are innately good and untainted with loving people. They do good and spread greatness just because-- no contest, no prize, no recognition-- just plain old feel good service! I think everyone needs to be more like that!

From Kid President:

"Love changes everything. So fill the world with it."

The girls at the National Day of Service. We worked at the Dare to Care Senior Foodbank which provides 4,000-6,000 boxes of food to seniors each month. 

One of the messages from Kid President "treat everyone like it's their birthday" 


Thursday, October 8, 2015

The good things...

Last week, I had a student bring me her "packet" of information for writing a letter of recommendation. Our school provides a handout with primarily questions for students so they can give teachers information before simply asking for a letter. Most students include a resume and a parent "brag" sheet, also provided by the school.

While, I knew this student would most likely ask for a letter of recommendation, I didn't realize she would bring me a 10 page packet of information. The funny part is, I could probably write her a 3 page letter of recommendation without any packet. I have gotten to know her well over the last 3 years and have so many experiences that I could reference to give her a shining letter. I reminded her when she handed me the giant packet that she only gets one page and I would do my best to condense her experiences and growth to that.

After, Emma asked me twice if I read her packet, I figured I probably should get started. She said she was especially proud of her personal statement that was included. Below is what she wrote:

"Growing up on a modest, four acre farm with various chores ranging from feeding my sheep, to watering our fruit trees, I can always relate situations back to life’s common scenes. I see my various sized sheep saundering throughout the pasture carelessly, and my border collie, Woody, herd them into the locked barn every night, like a shepherd. 
I too am a border collie, in every sense of its nature; a guide dog, if you will. I understand the importance of having a shepherd, a guide, a leader and have witnessed the chaos that is caused by the absence of one. When I see sheep aimlessly wandering, whether it be on the soccer field, my school’s hallways, or in my FFA chapter, I refuse to be passive. Much like Woody, I thrive in this position. I have a passion for service, and consequently I find myself holding positions of leadership in just about every aspect of my life. 
I have an inborn fondness for structure, and I believe that there are benefits and opportunities to reap from living life with purpose. I know that every great structure has a foundation, or a leader, and without one, it becomes weak. I have seen first hand the monumental amounts of positive change in a structure because the foundation has been changed and fortified. For example, my freshman year when I first joined my high school’s FFA program, it was just two months after the school year started that my teacher quit. That entire year was a jumbled mess because we had substitutes and volunteers advising our FFA chapter, and had no solid foundation. After recognizing the need for leadership in my chapter, I decided to run for office and was elected Vice President which left me in charge of reviving my chapter’s committees and breathing drive back into the members. Finally, after a long interview process, my high school hired a new full time Agriculture teacher. She immediately hit the ground running, and replaced our makeshift foundation with dedication, hard work, and leadership. I personally witnessed one person’s leadership take a practically non existent chapter, to be state recognized the following year and was able to share that experience along side her. 
Over this last year, I realized that my purpose is to serve my teammates, classmates, and members just like Woody serves my sheep: selflessly and passionately. I have learned that putting others before myself is rewarding and that my efforts and energy are contagious, just like my Ag teacher’s leadership inspired me. I believe leadership is influence and I aspire to instill fervor into those around me. I intend to pursue Law, where I can combine my passions for agriculture and advocacy into a career that promotes initiative and leadership in my community. Using the servant leadership Woody demonstrates as my foundation, I desire to serve as a catalyst in my community, tackling new ideas, cultivating change, and harmonizing the best interests of many."

I was so humbled that she wrote a little about me. It was such a positive reminder that the daily frustrations are eliminated when students (and myself) focus on potential and total growth. High school isn't about the tests taken or the assignments turned in, but the experiences and growth that teenagers go through. While Emma talks about the transformation of the chapter, I have witnessed the transformation of her. She is one of those kids that will leave high school and constantly strive for more and better. She will make a difference in the her community because of the passion and purpose that drives her.

She is right about many things in her statement, but my favorite is "Leadership is influence". Influence to do more, be more and serve more. Who you influence and how you influence people are lasting impressions...

Some of the many experiences, we've had the past 3 years...
 2, soon to be 3 National Conventions...
 A lot of food!
 More food, more importantly silliness even when things don't go our way
More fun...
 Success...
 Recognition!
This is quiet possibly my favorite picture of Emma...
It shows her "fierceness"!
This picture is a compilation of hard work, dedication, intensity and drive to succeed