She was referring to Nan Carder, who just had given a tribute, and was our 2nd grade teacher (and the love of the man whom had passed). Her questions really got my wheels turning to write and reflect on all the amazing teachers I was fortunate to have, especially in elementary school and high school.
Nan, or Mrs. Carder-- which is what I still call her, is without a doubt one of the most amazing teachers I ever had. Memories of daily activities, from 2nd grade, are few and far in between. But there are a couple things that will stick with me forever about 2nd grade and my amazing teacher. First, she was always in tow with a coke. This told me early on that to be a teacher, caffeine would always be a necessity (and potentially an accessory). She also had the most distinct and perfect handwriting--I personally just always appreciate nice handwriting (especially now that I'm a teacher). I remember she did this Star Student thing, I don't remember what it meant or what we were able to do because we were the Star, but it seemed special. We got a scrapbook-type book she made and I feel like I waited the entire year to be the Star! The other big thing was Mrs. Carder was dubbed as the "Field Trip Queen", by many. I remember all of the trips, most of which my mother drove on because she basically drove a red tank as a car. A few years ago, after I had been teaching a couple years, Mrs. Carder told me that she thought maybe I had taken over the title of Field Trip Queen with all our FFA trips. Now, I wasn't placed in her class on accident, she was one of the mother's friends so I know my mother did what she needed to make sure I was in her class. They had been friends, played in the same bunko group and my older brother and her sons were friends too.
Nan is someone who throughout my life, I have always maintained contact with. Now more so with Facebook, as she has turned her former field trips into amazing adventures traveling anywhere and everywhere. Sitting and talking with my friend today, she reminded me that we now as adults are friends with our 2nd grade teacher. Seems kind of funny, but it got me thinking that we should all strive to be that kind of teacher. Regardless of grade level, we should all teach as if our students are going to be our forever friends. Now, I'm not saying be our students friends-- no no not that.
Instead, teach them to find passion and be good people. Support them through their hardships, while still expecting them to do their part. Teach them right from wrong, so they can develop their moral ground. If we teach and treat all our students as if someday they will be our friends, what would we do differently? How can we contribute to making them good people-- people we would be proud to be friends with?
I feel blessed to be friends with someone who was my 2nd grade teacher. I think she was always one of my first inspirations to be a teacher. For a long time, I thought I would be a 2nd grade teacher too-- until I took Ag and figured out I could connect my passion and hobbies into one thing and make it a career.
Haiku for John F.:
