It's Gonna Be Okay...

Last week we had our Chapter Officer Leadership Conference in Sebastopol. My kids are rather "energetic" and "lively" at conferences where they get to see old friends and make new friends. For lack of a better reference they are like flippin caged animals being let out for the first time! 

While at times it's incredibly frustrating to maintain their focus and make sure that they are absorbing everything from the conference to bring back to the chapter. For the most part they really appreciate and understand the importance of conferences and really value what they learned. I personally don't think that's a skill you can really teach to kids. 

Being energetic.

Being engaged. 

Being willing to step outside their comfort zone.

Being respectful. 

Being appropriate. 

Being there for others not part of their chapter. 

I seriously could not teach all of these things to my chapter officers. I was extremely impressed with their commitment and dedication while we were at COLC. And yes they totally make me furious sometimes! But they really do try to take in everything that is given at conferences-- which I wholeheartedly appreciate! 

My officers with the CA State FFA Officers

The best part is when we come home from conferences and they really take on those leadership roles that they learn about. I figure I've taught them and given them the tools they need, but it really takes the individual kid, to want to do a good job and want to be a leader. I've been so lucky this year to have kids that take the initiative to text me and find out if they should contact everyone for activities and how they should go about it. It's refreshing to have kids take ownership of committees and meetings, plan what they will present, games they'll play, and ideas want to discuss. 

It's times like these I have to remind myself to breathe, because it's all going to be okay. I need to remember that the kids are capable little creatures and when I start stress, I need to delegate those responsibilities to them because they are more than able to handle it. 

I can't take all the credit for the great job that they're all doing... But I can say that I set high expectations, train them and instill a little fear... A little, very rare, and on point craziness goes a looooooonnnnnggg way! Hahaha... 

Times like this and kids like these are the reasons that I am so happy and pumped to be an Ag teacher. I really love my frickin job... It rocks my socks! 

And a bonus today... It was Greenhand Conference! Little baby freshies doing fun, new stuff! Can't wait for them to continue in the FFA! 

What does it take?

In school, meaning high school I was pretty average... I got decent grades, that I had to bust my a$$ for, I played some sports and I did for 4-H and FFA. I was not a star athlete, a star student or ASB president. And magically I got into college... Even a couple of them! 

Now that I'm a teacher and I feel like I consult kids on a daily basis about college, why they should go (not all but most) and all the awesome things about college. I feel HELPLESS.

Helpless?! Yup! 

I feel like I know even less about how to help kids get to the college they want to go to-- financially, academically and emotionally. Although I only graduated five years ago I feel like so much has changed in the college system compared to when I was there. 

College and getting into college has now consumed the lives of high school freshmen and sophomores. And unfortunately by the time they get to their senior year I feel like they are even less prepared to go to college, then they really should be and they're not getting it. 

College is just such a focus for so many teachers, administrators, counselors and parents and even students. Yet, these star athletes, star students and presidents of every club on campus are not getting into college. I have kids with a ridiculous amount of AP classes, playing multiple sports, involved in multiple clubs and leadership and I hate to tell them that they might not get in the college of their dreams. 

Our school even had a girl last year who was a "ideal" well-rounded student and ideal candidate for college and that she didn't get into the one University that she wanted to go to. It's not like she was shooting for the moon or anything, it was a UC in California for jeez sake. How is that even possible?! How are 4.0+ GPAs and "involved with everything" type kids not getting into universities?? 

Kids no longer get to enjoy the great things about high school, because they are so consumed by these high-end classes and being involved with everything that they don't know how to balance anything. We are almost creating ADD kids. They can no longer focus on one thing or aspect of school and do it well. They have to do everything, they have to do it over the top, and they have to do it all at once. And that is only to MAYBE have a chance at the college of their choice (the realistic one).

Kids no longer take their time, do high quality work every time or really absorb information... They are so slammed, they rush through work just to get it done.

It's just crazy to me that so much emphasis is put into "being awesome and getting in". Kids need to be able to set goals and work hard to get into college but also enjoy the road getting there.

This is now my students on a daily basis... 

I'm not a Runner

Labor Day weekend I did something I never thought I could do. I ran... In a race... For a few miles...

Now, my entire life I have always said, "Do you see this body? It's not meant for running or cardio!" I've also said that if you see me running, you should probably start too because something is most likely chasing me. Running, and exercise of any kind, is not my forte.

So what the hell did I run in a race for? Well for starters, it was at Disneyland! Most amazing place ever! Freaking love that place! Secondly, I figured why not?? I mean really... What the hell was I waiting for? I decided it was probably best to start being proactive and the first step was some running.

I also decided a weekend with my crafty bitches would be so fun! Especially in The Happiest Place on Earth! So I signed my a$$ up and started preparing and did some training.

I trained and even got a treadmill to keep motivated. I will say it wasn't the easiest thing to stay focused for, mostly because I have never been a runner. But....

Going across the finish line was one of the most personally rewarding things I have ever done. It was such a rush of awesomeness! Then somebody handed me a medal... Pretty bada$$ to get a medal after doing something I thought was impossible. It was equally awesome that I did it with my soul sister, Jill. Our other crafty bitch, Alyssa, was with us too, but she smoked us and just ran her tushy off the whole time!

It was something that I'm pumped to do again... Like real soon... We already registered for the Tinkerbell Half Marathon in May!

Some days I still do things that amaze myself... The Disneyland 10K was definitely proof of that. I learned a little about myself in the process too. Mostly that I am the one that needs to believe in myself. I need to think more about what I can do rather than what I can't do.


Magic is believing in yourself, if you can do that, you can make anything happen.

The finish line!!!! 

Running in California Adventure... 

The crowd at 5:30am! Crazy that 8,000 people ran with us! 

We enjoyed the parks after our much needed showers!

Wednesday Wisdom from a Young Owl

Okay so.... I don't know everything when it comes to teaching and being an advisor (not a huge surprise, right?!). BUT, I do think I try really hard to be there for my kids, make sure they are learning stuff and make my classes relevant to their life and future.

So it totally fries my tushy, when other teachers don't put in the time to really get to know their students. Blah, Blah, Blah, everyone is busy, or whatever the excuse of the day is. I feel like that is what kids want, parents want and administrators want. Shouldn't we know our students? Building a bond with a kid could be the most valuable you do all year as a teacher. Because those bonds, help you (the teacher), when you then need that kid to do an assignment or make an effort on a project. Some of the coolest kids I know and have in class are not star students. But I appreciate them for they are and give them props for what they do regardless of the score they did or didn't get on a quiz. Kids are individuals, it's important that we get to know them and treat them like individuals. Rather than another number?

If we take more time to get to know our students hobbies or interests can't we better engage them in class? Wouldn't our examples be more personal to them? If they feel invested, won't they make an effort? Typically yes... Always? Probably not... But some is always better than none.

Last year, I made an attempt to attend at least one home game of every sport (with the exception of cross country and track). It is amazing how much you can get a silent student to talk in class after attending one of their sports games/meets. Because they know you care enough about them to show up outside of school. Same goes for drama productions... And they're pretty fun on a Friday night! 

I just wish more teachers really WANTED to be part of that culture at schools. I know everyone is busy, has families or whatev but one or two outside school activities won't kill ya! 

But then again, attending too many might get ya suckered into being the Junior class advisor... Yeah that's me... What the hell did I agree to?! Guess we'll find out. 

 

"My Emblem" project... On the 2nd day of school I already knew what sports schedules to print. 

Football games are always fun! And I get to yell so that's good for my blood pressure... Can't wait for next week's 1st home game!

Back to School!

Today was my first day back to school!! Year 5 has begun!

I can officially say I am so excited to be back and with my kiddos. This summer went waaaaaay to quick but luckily I kinda dig my job so it's not a huge deal to be back. I could have used another day or two to prep my room and get things exactly how I wanted but oh well... It looks pretty good and I was able to change up quite a bit this summer so it's new and different (in a good way, I promise).

Last week I was fortunate enough to attend a staff retreat...
SAY WHAT?!?!

Yep! My high school admin take us hooligan teachers away for two days and we go through the year, have some professional development, reflect on last year and sit around and "chat" after dinner. We actually play some pretty intense games of Catch Phrase and Corn Hole. I remember last year how nice it was to meet everyone in a relaxed capacity before starting the school year. It was such a good way to get everything situated and feel like you could run to that kooky English teacher if you needed help in the first few days of school because of the time you spent at the retreat.

Something that always gets to me is the other teacher's summer stories (not just at this school). Teachers ramble about how they spent time here, and traveled there and blah blah blah... My favorite thing is when they ask what I did all summer. Ummmmm my response usually involves being at a fair. This summer it included three fairs in July and August. Some teachers are actually appalled that I didn't spend the summer tanning, traveling, surfing (we have a lot of surfers) or some other random summer activity. But instead.... wait for it.... I saw students!!!! Oh no! How could I?! What was I thinking?!

My summers are not quite as relaxing as others and I rarely travel to far away places but I like my low-key, fair-filled, hot as hell summers. They aren't too bad... This summer I got to spend a lot of time with my mom, which was really nice since she isn't working right now.

Summers are different for everyone...
I really like to read, sleep in, go to fairs and see friends (at least I try)...

Maybe someday I'll tan... But probably not because my pasty butt burns...
Maybe someday I'll travel... Well hopefully!
Maybe someday I'll surf... Hahaha maybe not!

For now... I'll be glad that I'm back in school, as the next two months are actually the most calm for my schedule.

Happy Back to School!!!!

Oh how I've missed high school kids! 

That Four Letter "F" Word

The four letter F word... Now I'm sure you can imagine what kind of possibilities there are...  But the four letter F word that I'm talking about is FAIR! This week starts my second week of Sonoma County Fair and the week of Redwood Empire Fair. 

I've spent the last couple of days reflecting on my fair experiences and how they impacted my life, as I do every year. To say I love fairs would be an understatement. But growing up they weren't necessarily all warm, fuzzy, rainbows and unicorns. There were definite ups and downs to every fair. 

I can vividly remember one year getting a nosebleed almost every day because temperatures reached 110 or higher. I can also remember hating wearing my uniform (jeans and long sleeves) and one of my leaders holding me down to put a belt on me... By the way I still hate belts! I can also remember never winning grand champion with my market animal. And always losing round-robin to my friend Miranda (every flippin time! She beat me at everything). There were even a couple instances where parents had mental breakdowns before the kids... These all helped make my fair experience, shall we say colorful? 

But those few weird and unfortunate events, never seem to trump the amazing family and successful experiences that we had together. Especially our camp time! Now some of you may know, but I actually lived in the town that our fair is held but I still camped in a trailer with my 4-H club every year. Because what is better than getting up at 5:30am and just walking to the barn with the wheelbarrow and a pitchfork?  Or sitting up late in a circle in the middle of camp, laughing about the events of the day and almost peeing our pants from so much giggling. My favorite was one year after our large Saturday night barbecue in camp with fresh oysters and everything, we took over the fire lane so that we could perform skits! 

I may not have ever won grand champion market hog but I won champion with all my breeding stock that I ever showed. I also was one of those kids that had a million fair exhibits in the still exhibits with multiple best of shows each year (my table settings were bomb.com). 

Most importantly while being involved in 4-H, FFA and attending fairs every year I gained that some of the best friendships! I made lifelong friends when I was eight years old by going to the fairs and working with people in the barns. Some of my favorite people, I met there. People from Willits, Laytonville, Hopland, Potter Valley and even Fort Bragg became family. 

I think that's why fairs are such an important part of my upbringing but also created such an impact on my life. It wasn't about the grand champion ribbons, it wasn't about the uniform... It was about the learning experience, the fun times in camp and the friends you make along the way. 

I like to win just as much as anyone... But I think people sometimes get lost in the winning and forget about the important aspects of fairs-- the people. Those friendships are invaluable, long after the ribbons and banners are faded or torn, the friendships are still there. 

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Deidre and I could laugh together all dang day... John and Jordan were never impressed. 

Scotty and I before the auction... French braids were in I swear!

Who takes an old, washed up team roping horse in a halter class?? This girl! 

Miranda and I our last fair... She beat me at everything... She was even born 4 days before me! But I love this girl! 

Sam! My leader, mentor, business partner, big brother, chaperone and friend!! Thank you for putting up with me for all those years. 

Water your own grass!

This is post is literally about something that I have no experience with. But that's never stopped me from having an opinion so here goes...

A few days ago, I saw a picture of a high school friend with another friend. Now, I must not pay enough attention to facebook because I was under the impression these people were married... To other people! So I texted my best friend and she informed they were both divorced now.

What the heck is wrong with people?! How have people become so accustomed to divorce? What happened to vows and all that crap?! Now, I'm definitely not the first to join the marriage bus, because I think people forget that it is partially a business deal (disagree if you want). But I also believe that when you get married, you have to work at it. Right?! It's not easy, it's not for the party, it's not to appease people nor should it be something that is a quick decision.

My unfiltered opinion is that technology has helped ruin the sanctity of marriage-- not in the way you may think. I also believe that parents help mold their children into the type of spouses they will become (stick with me...).

My generation (okay like 35-18 years old) has been ultimately spoiled rotten with new inventions, new technology and the luxury of instant information. This, in my opinion, has been to our demise. Where on earth would people learn about "sticking with" something in our age of instant information and new gadgets?

"Oh, your cell phone has a cracked screen? That's okay we will go get you a new one, even if we don't really have the money for it"
WHAT?!?
Why on earth would you buy a new phone for someone who didn't take care of it in the first place???

I feel this type of attitude has trickled into marriages. If something is broke-- that's okay, get a new one! Uhhhhhh no! You work to fix it. And you start in the beginning by taking care of it.
So many people my age rush into marriage. Not knowing enough about the other person, whether it's handling conflict, raising kids, career changes, dealing with deaths, or even just getting through holidays is where it starts. Then two years later they wonder why they are unhappy, don't have anything in common and start looking other places for love and attention.

Parents have such an impact on their children and I think marriage is one of the areas they spend the least amount of time talking about. Parents who indulge their children "just because", are not helping. You are creating future adults who are too spoiled to share, discuss difference of opinions or even some who refuse to be content with what they have. Creating people who always ask "What if..." or those who always are looking for more, better or bigger. To be real with you, you are creating a$$holes, just stop already... Teach your children to take care of what they have, save up for new stuff and create some appreciation.

Now, I'm not saying all marriages are doomed or any crazy shiz like that... I do believe that people sometimes just make it work... LIKE THEY SHOULD! But it takes work, time, effort, compromise, compassion and nurturing.

 I know there are always some extenuating circumstances for people to get divorced and I totes get that. But if more people spent as much time and effort into being married as they do working, eating, tweeting, crafting, facebooking, shopping, watching TV, reading, exercising, sleeping or whatever else, there would be far fewer divorces.

Just my 2 cents... Okay maybe fiddy cents.

For every marriage... Take some time to water your own grass

I try not to be negative but occasionally this pops into my head... People-- stop rushing it!!